We cannot please people :)

Be ignorance works sometimes!

Hi and Assalamualaikum. It has been ages since my first post. I am a little it busy with all the courseworks and after that, I got exams. 5 exams overall packed in 2 weeks time :( sorry for being not to up-to-date and again, i am s sorry for all the grammatically errors as I've been work hard to improve my problems in my second language, which is English

previously, I got so many problems. I can say they are all external problems that happened to me during the exam period. Oh goshh.. i was so much in pressure to study for the exams and at the same time in need in balancing and trying to reduce all the external problems so that I can focus more for my exams

Not going to tell you what those problems were as I can say they are too personal to be shared. Well, that's fine. What I can conclude from the things that had happened, WE CANNOT PLEASE PEOPLE ALL THE TIME !

I am self-sacrificing kind of person, and I can say I am sometimes a people pleaser. I admit that sometimes, I sacrifice a lot of for the sake of my family and friends. Sacrificing for my family is the great things to do as they also have sacrificed a lot towards us (without we realised it). However, sacrifice for friends (whom I can say are outsiders) are also great things to do IF they realise it. It's not an easy things to sacifice for outsiders. From my previous experiences, they would never (or rarely) notice it. It applies the same way for me. I sometimes didn't realise what my friends did to cheer me up.

We always see the bad side of our friends/relatives. We rarely see the good side of them that we realised as soon as they are not by our side. So, to avoid all these speculations, I suggest (in fact, Islam already taught us in Quran) to always avoid the prejudices as it would bring harm to both parties indirectly. By thinking that nobody is perfect in this world could help you in not to think bad about your friends regardless whatever they did towards you.

I am not telling you that yo need to be people pleasers. Just be yourselves as you cannot meet surrounding people's requirement. again, you would NEVER meet their criteria as people were born with very distinct and different characteristics. That's what making us (human) so special. Allah gives us 'aql (mind) to think and ponder about the similarities and differences that we have and be tolerate to others. Guys, be tolerate to your friends. They may be quiet (and forcedly need to follow all your rules and instructions) in order not to start a quarrel. Who knows what they really feel and they ended up BEEN IGNORANCE. how sad!! I think that's all for know. Need to start working on my lecture notes and I start feeling sleepy T-T

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